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Friday, September 4, 2015

Author's Note and a Question/Favor

Hi guys!

Just wanted to give you a quick update.  I go back to school next week (boooo), and don't really have any posts pre-written, except for the very last couple.  That means I'm only comfortable with two planned posts per week.  When I have more time to write, I will certainly post bonuses!  I anticipate it mostly being two main storyline posts per week, but I'm sure there will be an occasional week with one main storyline and one alternate perspective.  My plan is to post on Sunday evenings and Wednesday evenings.

As Liv and Brody's wedding day draws closer, I hope to not miss any posting days, because we're already a couple weeks behind real time.  I will likely do some work to get us caught up relatively closely to real time.  Of course, with that said, my schedule is shaping up to be pretty brutal so I do ask for your patience and understanding if I have to miss or delay a post.  As always, I will be sure to let you know if I need to do so.

As I said above, I have the last few posts written already, and I'm actually really excited to wrap up Liv and Brody's story.  I know that sounds crazy, but I think I've done justice to them with the ending I've created.  I hope you all agree!

I do have a question for you all.  I've been sharing this story with you for so long, but I know nothing about you.  I'm super curious about the age range and locations of my readers.  I'd love if you guys commented with how old you are and if you're comfortable, your location (even a state or region is plenty!).   In return, if you have any burning questions about me, feel free to ask!  I'd like to preserve my anonymity as much as possible, but I will answer anything I'm comfortable with!

As always, thank you guys so much for being the best readers and commenters in the blog world.  I couldn't ask for better readers.  You all make it easy for me to write this!

144 comments:

  1. I'm 27 and I live in Chicago. :)

    Excited to see what you have in store for Liv and Brody!

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    1. I love Chicago! It's one of my favorite cities. Thanks for sharing :)

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  2. I'm 28 and live in New Brunswick Canada! Getting married in 23 days so the anticipation for Liv and Brody's wedding is so exciting for me!!!

    I just want to say how awesome your blog and how you have such great talent especially to be able to switch to any character in the blog!

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    1. I have a lot of Canadian readers, and I love it. You're getting married so soon! (But who's counting, right?) I hope it's wonderful and that the next three weeks are as low stress as possible.

      And thank you! I appreciate your kind words :)

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    2. I live in Halifax, NS Canada - very close to New Brunswick (36 years old)

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  3. I'm 28 and live in Rhode Island.

    You're one of the most consistent bloggers, I wouldn't worry about having to miss here and there. I'm sad Liv's story ending.

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    1. I'm sad it's ending too, but excited for the final posts. That doesn't make much sense, ha. Thanks for sharing!

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  4. 37-las Vegas! Lived in RI for a while.
    Seriously ill read anything you write. Keep it coming

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    1. RI to Las Vegas is a big move! I will do my best to keep the posts coming as consistently and as long as I can :)

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  5. 25, from beautiful Calgary, Alberta, Canada (right by the mountains!)

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    1. I miss your blog a lot. It was always one of my favorites! If you ever wanted to start writing again, you'd have a friend in me ;) I'm always happy to see you comment though. Thanks for sharing! And enjoy those mountains for me. I don't have any where I live right now and it's sad.

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  6. I'm 31 and live in Raleigh, North Carolina.

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    1. I have a handful of friends in that area! I visited Charlotte last November and it was my first time in NC. I enjoyed what I saw, but I wasn't there for long!

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  7. 27 and live in Pa! This is my absolute favorite blog and while I'm sad to see their story end, I'm also excited to hear more from lauren and kinsley! And you're always posting more than anyone, so I wouldn't worry about not being able to post as often for awhile!

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    1. Thanks! I'm excited to write more about Lauren and Kinsley :)

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  8. So far, I'm the youngest reader! I am 19 years old & I live in Kansas City! I'm in nursing school so I understand the hectic and craziness that school can cause!
    My question for you is what are you studying in college? Love your blog so much, and I'll miss the posts once you wrap the blog up! I wish you the best of luck in your future endeavors!

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    1. Nice! I hope your school year goes well :)

      I'm going into my last year of a masters in social work.

      Thank you so much, I'm glad you enjoy the blog!

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    2. I was wondering about that! I have my LMSW working towards my LCSW. Good luck with your last year. I know it can be tough with the practicum too. Oh and I'm 35 in Atlanta btw.

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    3. Thank you! How much longer do you have before you can take the exam?

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    4. I'm eligible next May based on my graduation date. I think I'll have all of my supervision hours by July if I stay in the same track. Thankfully I get it for free at my job.

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    5. That's a nice perk, getting it for free. Good luck!

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  9. 42 Las Vegas, moving to Phoenix next month

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    1. Eep, good luck with the move! I have a friend that just moved to Phoenix and she absolutely loves it there.

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  10. 27, metro detroit, michigan.

    Loved this blog from the start, cant wait (but sad) to see how it ends

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    1. If you come back and see this, I have a follow up question! Do you consider Detroit to still be in the midwest? I've heard conflicting opinions and I'm curious what you think as a metro resident.

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    2. I personally dont consider us part of the midwest. We are to far east, in my opinion. But i must say it is the most beautiful, diverse, wonderfully amazing state! Everyone should come visit the Great Lakes, they are pretty great!

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    3. That's what most people I know say, and what I think too. But some people are insistent on still being considered part of the Midwest. I'm a Great Lakes fan myself--I grew up on Lake Michigan (on the WI side, of course).

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  11. 28-Seattle. Love your writing!

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    1. Thank you! Seattle is another of my favorite cities. It's on my "move across the country" short list (just behind Denver, of course).

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    2. That's funny because I just moved back here--from across the country (DC). Haven't been to Denver but I'd love to go! :)

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  12. I'll probably shed a few tears when this blog ends. If you have plans to write a book, let us know!

    22, Philadelphia PA

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    1. Am I a terrible person if my goal is to make everyone cry with the last post? Yes? Whoops...

      I have a bunch of projects in the works. I've got a couple short stories I haven't decided what I'm going to do with yet, a story that might be my next blog, or might be a book, and a bunch of other ideas. I'll definitely keep you guys posted!

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  13. 32 near Galveston, TX

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  14. 22 from The Beautiful Land of Enchantment! NEW Mexico!

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    1. I've definitely got some places in NM on my travel list. I've never been there but want to go! Thank you for sharing.

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  15. 28, Los Angeles.

    Love the way you write, it's never boring. I'm especially so excited for Brody and Liv's wedding, also cuz my wedding anniversary is Oct 8th and it's so close to theirs. Lol!

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    1. That is so close! Happy anniversary a month early :) And thank you!

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  16. I'm 27 in New Jersey. I think you are amazing at the different perspectives, Lauren's voice has a different feel from Liv's and it is amazing. Thanks so much for all that you do!

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    1. Thank you so much! It's so much fun to write all the different perspectives. I love it.

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  17. 32 Los Angeles, CA.
    I looooooove your blog!! It's one of my two favorites!!

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    1. Thank you! That's high praise, because there are some awesome blogs out there. I appreciate it!

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  18. 25, from Las Vegas! I Love your blog!

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  19. 20, originally from NJ, going to school in chicago! This is by far my favorite blog - you're consistently amazing, and I always look forward to your posts!

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    1. Thank you so much. NJ to Chicago is a big move, I hope you love the city!

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  20. Also, I don't know if you've said, but how old are you/where are you from?

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    1. I probably haven't said :) Good question, since I'm making you guys tell me that, haha. I'm 29 and I live in MN right now. I'm from WI and I'm hoping to move out of the midwest soon. West, of course. To Denver, ideally (shocking, I know).

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  21. 30, suburb of Chicago

    I love your blog and consistency. Don't worry if you miss a post every now and then, I'm sure all your loyal readers like me would understand. Good luck with school!

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    1. Thank you so much! I've not had any issues with people being understanding, luckily. I just like to make sure everyone knows what the plan is. I think that helps :)

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  22. 36 from Chicago
    I'm sad to see Liv and Brody go but I'm excited to see what you cook up next with Kinsley and Lauren!

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    1. Another Chicagoan! Love it. I can't wait to see what I cook up with them either, haha.

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  23. 26 from the beautiful Indonesia :)

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    1. Wonderful, thank you for sharing! I'm so grateful for my international readers, I never thought I'd get readers from all over the world.

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  24. 35 SLC UT you're the best!!

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  25. I'm 30 and I live in New Orleans. Excited to see the ending you have for Liv and Brody!

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    1. Another city on my travel list that I haven't visited yet. Thanks for sharing!

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    2. You should visit asap. It's amazing here!

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  26. 23, Nigeria... I absolutely love your blog and your writing is amazing. Your such a talented writer.

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    1. Thank you! Thanks for reading! As I said above, I never thought I'd have readers from all over the world, so it's so cool to see my international readers commenting.

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  27. 25, Sacramento CA.

    I absolutely love your blog and writing style!

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  28. 35, Ottawa, Canada. Really like the different perspectives.

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  29. 36, North Bay Area, CA. I live in the wine country!! I'm expecting twins any day now!!

    I love your blog, and I'm very sad that it's ending but thank you for giving us a wonderful story. Where did you get the inspiration for Liv and Brody's story?

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    1. Oooh wine country! And congrats on your twins, that's exciting :)

      Hmmm, that's a tough question. I'm not completely sure. I was unhappily married and used to kind of fantasize about starting over. But it was nothing like this! I was part of the second wave of bedroom blog spin offs (So I spun off the Bedroom Blog spin offs?) after reading a few and thinking "I can do this!" I actually had very little of the story planned out in my head when I started but it all just kind of came as I wrote. I'm now happily UNmarried, and writing got me through some of the ugly stuff. So I might be a little emotionally attached to the story, haha.

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  30. I'm 29 and from Montreal, Quebec, Canada.

    As a wedding planner, I love the newest story line!

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    1. Glad you're loving it! And bless you for being a wedding planner ;) I couldn't do it. There's a good reason Liv is having a small, fairly simple wedding! Haha. Thank you for sharing!

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  31. 25, from Madison, WI and love it when Liv and Brody travel to Wisconsin!!!
    Thank you so much for taking the time to write this blog. It is without a doubt my favorite blog!! You are such an amazing writer!!

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    1. Awesome! I love Madison so much. Such a fun, eclectic city. And thank you so much for your sweet compliments. I'm so glad you love the blog!

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  32. Anna, 28 and in Johannesburg South Africa (though I am American). Love reading your blog when I feel a bit homesick!

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    1. Wow, now THAT is a huge move. I'm glad my blog can help when you're missing home :) Thank you for sharing!

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  33. 42 Washington DC! I have enjoyed your blog. Keep it coming!

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  34. 28, originally from Connecticut but I moved three months ago to upstate South Carolina to start my career in counseling after grad school and be closer to my longterm boyfriend.
    I love way you write, I'm a little sad to see their story end however I'm excited for you to finish grad school- good luck!

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    1. Not going to lie, I'm pretty jealous that you're done with grad school, haha. One more year! Thank you!

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    2. It took me 4 years between working full time and a full time internship then another year to find a job down here, now I'm working on my counseling license; perseverance will always pay off! Hang in there, the light at the end of the tunnel is getting brighter! (And it's not a train- I promise,haha.)

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    3. Ha! It definitely feels like a train sometimes. I've been working full time, taking 9-13 credits at a time, and this year and last year I had an internship to go with it (last year's was 14 hours a week, this year's is 18). I have a research project to complete this year to boot! It's been a wild ride, but it will be worth it in the end! Thanks for the encouragement :)

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  35. 29 (30 in 2 weeks!) I'm from the Seattle area.

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  36. I'm 32 and live in Michigan. Denver is one of the better cities for my industry and reading your blog makes me want to move there!

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    1. And PS good luck with school! Love your writing :)

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    2. I know no fewer than 5 people that have moved out to Denver in the last year. It's crazy. I hope to join them when I finish school! You should too :) And thank you!

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    1. 31 San Diego, I did grow up in Colorado :) miss the gorgeous mountains but can't say I miss the crazy weather haha.
      Love your blog, you definitely have a way with writing multiple perspectives.
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    2. Love San Diego too. The weather there is pretty much ideal for me year round but I do think I'd miss the changing seasons. The weather in Denver is a serious improvement from what I'm used to here in the upper midwest, so I'll take it! And thank you :)

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  38. I'm a 31 married mother of a one year old with number two due April 2015. We live in Ontario, Canada, about an hour from Detroit.

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  39. I'm 23, and a recent graduate of teacher's college, from Ontario Canada! Keep doing what you are doing, your blog is amazing, one of my favourites for sure :)

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  40. I'm 26 and just moved from south Carolina actually to Denver! I can't wait to see how you wrap up their storyline and I'm happy we will still be getting occasional updated on everyone else too! You're easily my favorite blogger! Thank you for taking your time to entertain us and doing such a fantastic job at it!

    Grace

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    1. That is awesome. Are you enjoying it so far! Thank you so much for your sweet compliments, as well :)

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  41. I'm 22 and I live in Edinburgh, Scotland

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    1. Another place I need to go to someday! Thank you for sharing :)

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  42. 19 and I go to school in Goshen, IN. I love this blog! So excited that you're going to continue some after Liv and Brody's story comes to an end. I would also love occasional updates on them!

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    1. I won't abandon Liv and Brody completely, I promise!

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    2. I just had to comment on this because most of my childhood was lived in Goshen :)

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  43. I'm 24 and live in the Oshkosh area of Wisconsin! I'm in nursing school, own a home, work and have a 4 year old, so I totally understand a hectic schedule!!

    This is the only blog that I even bother to follow anymore! You are an awesome writer, and it really does feel like different people are writing when you do the different perspectives! I look forward to reading the rest of Liv and Brody's story line, but I'm also excited to see about the other ones. Maybe we can still occasionally get Liv and Brody stories once in a while (like you currently do with some of the other lesser characters)? I'm curious what you do in real life? I know you said your own life more mirrors Lauren rather than Liv.

    Thanks for your writing!

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    1. I almost went to UW Oshkosh. A good friend did, so I've spent some time in the area! You ARE busy, holy crap. I'm impressed :)

      Thank you for your kind compliments, I appreciate them greatly! We can definitely get some Liv and Brody updates/stories. I actually work at a human services agency--that part of my life is pretty similar to Liv's. My personality is most like Lauren, but there is definitely a little bit of me in Kinsley and Liv too!

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  44. I'm 30 years old and currently living in Phoenix. I love it here, but I can see myself moving to a shack on the beach somewhere. Maybe Bolivia. :)

    I've really liked your story and I'm sad it's ending. I would absolutely read anything else you decided to write, and you're the only blogger I can say that about!

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    1. I wouldn't mind a shack in the mountains somewhere. Bonus if there is mountains AND nearby beach! Thank you so much. I will definitely keep you all posted on what I'm up to!

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  45. 31, I've lived in 4 different states and currently reside in IN.

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    1. I would not have guessed IN for some reason, though I'm not sure why! Thanks for sharing :)

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  46. I'm shocked their aren't many Texans on here. There are so damn many of us it seems I can't get away lol. I live in a small town near houston. 26 years old.
    I have been reading for awhile now and love your blog. I do have one comment. Although this may be completely in my own head because I tend to think a litte lopsided. Hard to explain lol. When you write posts in another perspective.... I think.it's one in particular can't remember who at the moment... but when you write in present tense it's really hard to follow. Not sure if that makes sense but in my head I don't think like that... example, I walk up to the bar and order a drink. In my head it's I walked up to the bar. It makes those posts really hard to follow and I have to reread sentences over and over. I don't want you take it negatively as I said could be totally just me. But ive wanted to mention it for awhile but didn't want you to take it the wrong way, as I adore your blog. Sorry for the grammar, I'm tired and lazy atm. Lol but seriously good luck in Denver. If I ever take the plunge and move it would definitely be to Colorado!

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    1. Ah yes, Lauren's posts are in present tense. I'm not sure why I did it that, except that it seemed like it made sense for her character. Sorry that it's confusing! Unfortunately I don't think I could change now, it would be weird. But I didn't take it negatively--I do welcome constructive feedback! I know you've been a longtime reader and commenter so I appreciate you telling me! I can play around with it a little :)

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    2. Lol didn't you say you were lauren? Kinda makes sense if that's the case. ^_^ glad you didnt take it negatively

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  47. 36 in 3 weeks and I am from Puerto Rico

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  48. 34 from Waukesha, WI. Love that Liv is from WI!

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  49. Hi, am 33 and from Malaysia. Thank you so much for a great go to blog, when trying to escape my kids craziness. Sad that Liv and Brody's story is coming to an end. Looking forward to Lauren and Kingsley ' stories. Am sure that Liv and Brody will be making apperance from time to time?

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    1. Yes, definitely! I couldn't abandon them now. Thank you for reading and commenting!

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  50. Tried to comment this weekend, but for some reason neither my tablet or phone will allow the comments to go through on blogs.
    Anyways - Love your blog & wanted to say I just turned 32 & am also in the land of 10,000 lakes. Hope you had a chance to enjoy the fair!

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    1. Ugh, I didn't make it this year! The only days I could have gone were sooooo hot, and I don't do well in the heat and humidity. I was bummed, because I was looking forward to eating all the fried things on sticks.

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  51. 25 in two weeks and I'm from Texas!

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  52. Looks like I'm the oldest! 43 from Harrisburg, PA. I love the consistency of your blog. It truly is appreciated. mum

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  53. Just saw this! I had a nice little vaca weekend and am getting caught up on the blog :D I can't wait to read the ending of Liv and Brody's storyline!!!!!! Especially if you're excited about it!

    I am 24 and from Central Ohio!

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    1. Thanks for commenting! I hope you had a great vacation weekend. Go anywhere cool?

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  54. Just found this blog last week and I think I've neglected my family and house a bit.

    29 and from the Netherlands

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  55. 29 from Portland. Currently working toward my hours to become a LPC although my schooling was as an MFT.

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